With our society at an all-time high for divorce rates, along with communication difficulties regarding finances, sex, and parenting styles; marital therapy can be a place to create a new relational narrative. Emotional Focused couples therapy along with other approaches is used to help couples learn how to communicate one’s needs to be met in a healthy manner. Couples counseling is a place to openly share feelings and negotiate power within the relationship and develop an interdependent union. Remember those butterflies when you first fell in love with your partner? Marriage is about learning to fall in love with the same person over and over again in a fulfilling manner.